how do i get my boys to help

i cant get my boys to pick up after themselfs helppppppppppppp

Someone my other half knows gives their children poker chips for doing things good.
Then they can exchange them in for treats. So many for a pound and so many for a day out somewhere.
They also get them taken away for bad behaviour

Failing that sort of a idea dont do their tea or their washing they soon learn xx

my boys do the dish washer , every nite for there five pound pocket monday a week ,

Hi hun have you thought about a reward chart? How old are they? It works well with my two if at the end of the week they have all their ticks on their chart they can pick a reward like a dvd rental or sweets or something from the poundshop (lol) they love a bit of tat. x x

we have a rots on the fridge where they only do one chore a day but it really helps me out, every day they get a pound if the chore is done but they get it taken away for misbehaving. but they can also earn extra credits lol by doing things not on their list and without being asked (basically i thro in what ever change I have LOL)
Nakita has a dolls house so hers is to decorate and furnish that and joshua has a big sxelktrix (sp) so his is to add to that so they both have goals with it.


Paula
xxx