tina&paula

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Hi am cas mum to 3boys and agirl. Hows you

hi cas sorry babes didnt realise i gave you two buddys ill take over from here

Tina wrote:hi cas sorry babes didnt realise i gave you two buddys ill take over from here

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hi paula how are you xx

sorry is this me or is there someone with the user name paula? I just dont wanna step on any toes lol


paula
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lmao no its u hunnie

hi there, Im fine thanks how are u? ok so tell me about u then....

Im 32 got 3 kids joshua is 11 (and just passed his 11+ with an A!!!) sorry had to brag lol Nakita is 8 and Ethan is 10 months and into eerything.
Im a reiki master, counsellor and tarot reader..... I think thats about it really Im not very exciting LOL


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hi paula yes fantastic news id be very proud im mum to 3 children kirsty who leaves school in june david whos 12 and alicia shes 18 months a live wire we have 1 dog 2 cats we live in west sussex so hows your weekend been hun xx

had a quiet weekend really. had to get new wardrobes so that cost me a fortune lol. just had big row with Ex hubby hes such a fuckin asshole. Now my DD doesnt wanna go back up to him on the weekends but shes scared he will shout if she says so so I rang and told him she doesnt wanna go and Im not making her needless to say ofcourse he says shes talkin shite and making it all up even tho joshua is agreeing with what shes sayin


so how was ur weekend? lol
can I get an globy admin blinky thing?


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lovely to get new things always the money factor tho not cheap aww hugs hun over your ex yeah im ok my legs n knees hurt ouch lol housework washing all weekend all exciting my life lol yeah will add your blinkie hun i was having more made xx

awe thank you I woda done it myself but I dont know how to. hhmmm housework huh? whats that? LOL I wish. altho i am lucky coz when we had Ethan Marc said I shldnt have to do ironing for 5 people when one of them pukes on everything and the little lady changes her clothes as often as I eat LOL so he pays someone to do our ironing which is a god send I have to admit Id hate to have to do it gain.
well I had some good news today at kids school about Joshua. I didnt put it all in the post coz I didnt want people to think Im bragging but his teacher told me that in his opinion Joshua is a gifted child!!!!! After such a shit beginging in life he has come on so well despite his dickhead father im so proud of him.... ok brag over lol

so wot u at today? do u work?

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hi hun no thats no problem hunnie were getting new avatars and post blinkies which is why no ones up to date there lol takes time housework yeah drives me mad washing feel like im doing that all time teenager worse than the baby lol na u keep bragging hunnie so pleased for you i have 2 special needs children they have co9me on heaps its lovely when our children improve and are noticed bless him not een up to much sorting other peoples sites out lol no hunnie cant work due to arthritis underactive thyroid anyway hope ur ok xx

do u get help with the kids then? or do they get help in school? the school my 2 go to have a few special needs kids and they have ppl in to help them specificlly. i spose depends on their needs. im dreading when mine get to school leaving age lol girlfriend and boy friend trouble OMG lol

no hun i look after all 3 kids my self my older ones do get help in school and kirsty leaves school this june shes the youngest in her classd so still be 15 when she leaves but shes going on to college so she will get help there too kirsty doesnt have a lot of understanding has post traumatic stress due to an incident 8 years a go david was stated borderline adhd alicia is being looked at next week for austic spectrum disorder so its all go here ive never asked for help nor will i im there mummy

awe Im sorry to hear Kirsty has gone thru something so terrible. hugs. I hear some awful stuff whenIm counselling it really makes u wonder how we treat our pets so well and yet we treat other people terribly.
I know ur their mum and it sounds like u do a wonderful job but u shldnt have to take it al by urself hun.
What is Kirsty going on to do?
I assume ( and I cld be very wrong here ) but if David is borderline can u control it then? my friends wee boy is adhd but she controls his food intake and gives him that eyeQ stuff and she says that really helps
I spose altho its hard for u to hear its good that alicia is getting tested so u know how u can best help her then?

I hope ur ok and please look after urself too hun

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aww thanks hunnie alicia whackered her head again yesterday on more than one accasion so took her straight to gp got appt within 20 minites but no good she was useless telling me toddlers do that for attention i told her im not having this so hv due out tuesday to watch her then put referral in im going to insist with special needs children you do have a big and long fight to get these appointments they just fobb you off which is why david never got past borderline adhd i gave up fighting after 5 years not this time thanks hun hope you and your family are ok xx ps kirstys still not sure hun so is going to do some different things workwize at college for her first year they are putting her on an anger management course as i asked them too coz how kirsty is now after her ordeal all them years ago ive battled with her for 8 years on this one kirsty was sexually abused by our old neighbour hense old i moved us away there were 11 accvounts of abuse so i suppose been tough with david too now alicia nearly dieing givin birth to alicia bein homebound for 2 months loss of legs due to temp paralize but i always say there is always someone worse off then yourself so my heart lays with them sorry me baffling talk soon tc hunnie xx

Hi sorry I havent been around Marc and I went away saturday night and I didnt get much chance on Friday. I was abused by my step dad so I have an idea how she feels hun.... its hard. sounds like uve really been thru the mill with ur lot.

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thats ok hun hope u had great time oh its life hun xx

oh we did have a great time I have to admit its the best valentines Ive ever had.. ( about bloody time too LOL)


Paula
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thats great hun im so please you had fun xx

hows u hun? ur very quiet atm is everything ok?


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dont worry just depressed nothing major hope u ok hun xx

that doesnt sounds good hun. are u on meds?

teah on meds but coz this toothace not helping i be back on site fully when it not hurt i still pop on each day make sure all ok here xx