hi everyone ,,my eldest is 18 and in my eyes has gone out of character .She meet a new bf last year and it has been a bit on and off with their relationship . Since she turned 16 she didnt seem the same old daughter anymore , she had been attending dance classes since the age of 7 years and it was her life , but decided to give it all up . Never did i have any trouble from her before this ,and it just seems that since then she has never been the same .We have always had a excellent relationship , but recently it has gone down hill . i have always been quite open with her and even went out over the past year to pubs and clubs etc . She has a very good job is doing really well as far as im awhere . Then i invited her bf round on new years eve and yes he is older than her at 27 and i did express my concerns , but didnt give her any pressure over it . I was not impressed by him as the night went on ,and infact found him very rude , and me being me had to state this , which obviously didnt go down to well , but i felt this was my home and it is called RESPECT !! .My daughter is such a lovley girl and has so much going for her and due to this confrontation on new years eve she did infact leave and is now leaving with this boyfriends sister, NOT THE BOYFRIEND !!. I AM SO WORRIED ABOUT HER ,and have heard rumours that she is pregant . She has been round once since , and gave me no respect at all , which isnt like her and left soon after arriving . She is very stubborn like her dad lol !! Its just a mess at the moment and im unsure on how to approach this situation without pushing her futher away . if anyone has any advice or experience of teenage girls it would be greatfully appreciated ,, as i love my daughter with all my heart and she is my life !!!